BillionHeirs,
There are many reasons why kids should not be conceived during marital affairs. An affair should not be going on in the first place but unfortunately they do happen. The kids will be the ones to suffer because of two narcissistic adults. Lets say, you add kids to the messy situation, now what?! Do not play the blame game in which you played your part. The question is, how and when will the outside kids be introduced to the indoor life?
For what ever reason one chooses to have an affair just know that you will have to answer to someone. Your spouse! God too! Eventually, you will have to answer to all of your kids both inside and out. The day will come when they calculate your malicious tactics. Be ready to tell your kids that you cannot see your father because he has a wife and kids. Be ready to tell your kids mommy cheated on daddy and this is your brother but his daddy is Andre. Or be ready to explain to your indoor family that you have an outside life with kids attached. Your story will unfold so the only thing to do is tell your kids the truth. Besides, you owe them that much.
As a result, you should expect some resentment from your kids. You should expect to loose your indoor family because of your selfish acts. The day you start to cheat on your family is the day you start to lose them. No one will believe it when you say I didn't know they had a spouse. I was told, you should investigate before you invest. That means do not open your life to someone that cannot plan a future to be with you as a family. Overall, if you are beyond this point then your feelings are irrelevant and you should have no expectations.
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